A Kiss is Just a Kiss ... An Ask is Just an Ask

Posted by anamaria

Thu Nov 5th, 2009 10:21 AM

We talk about trends and we generalize in the process of empowering ourselves and our readers with information that’s relevant and real. At end of day, though, a sale occurs when one individual seller and one individual buyer have a meeting of the minds. This means, as is always the case when humans are involved, that markets are not efficient and they are subject to the whims and oscillations of human behavior. As behavior is not always rational or efficient (yes, this point can be argued by die-hard theorists), neither are the real estate markets.

Why this quasi-pedestrian intro? Because it all seems to go out the door in the negotiations process and it all starts with the asking price.

On the buy side:

Though we often advise buyers to consider the “value” of the property as a stand-alone data point, this rarely happens. It’s oh so easy to anchor yourself to the asking price and work from there. Many buyers, encouraged by this buyer’s market, approach properties with a standard 10% or 15% haircut off the top no matter what the ask. This strategy (if we could call it that) neglects the simple fact that all asking prices are not created equal. Some are priced above, some at, and others below market (yes, it happens).

Further, there is the “value” of the property and then there’s the minimum that the seller will actually sell it for … ergo, the difference between seller and buyer expectations that Noah has so eloquently been discussing. (The reason I keep placing “value” in quotation marks is because a property is only worth what a buyer is willing to pay for it, just like any other asset.) The bottom line for the buy side is to treat each property individually to yield the most fruitful negotiations.

On the sell side:

Considering the buyer mentality, what is a seller to do? It’s tough for sellers in this market, because every buyer wants to feel like they’re getting a deal. This is an important distinction: they don’t just want to get a good deal but they want to FEEL like they “won”. As such, sellers have three options:

1. They can price high to test the market and bring the price down later. The negotiation cushion is huge but traffic is very limited and the staleness clock is ticking after the first few weeks.

2. They can price at market and hope that people understand this. Traffic is good but there’s little wiggle room in the price to accommodate those 10-15% automatic discount expectations.

3. They can price below market and hope to god the property gets bid up to the true “value”. Traffic is tremendous, low-ball offers are still made but the smart money prices the property where it should be in the shortest timeframe.


The bottom line for the sell side is that intellectually the third option is the winner, but emotionally it takes quite a leap of faith to go there. Most sellers we’re seeing are just not ready to jump. They’re saying: “but what if someone bites at a higher price? I won’t know unless I try, plus I can stay in the market for a while longer.”

For buyers, asking prices should be relatively meaningless; for sellers, it's everything. Whichever side of the equation you’re on, the buy side or sell side, we’d love to hear your perspective.

Buyers: are you willing to get in a bidding war, as we’ve heard so much about? How are you deriving your offers and how would you react to a seller who will not budge on their asking price at all?

Sellers: what is your reaction to option #3? What drove your decision on where to price and how is it working out?


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